About this episode
This episode explores the implications of the nature vs. nurture debate on religious identity formation in children.
The nature vs. nurture debate is largely settled (spoiler alert: it's both), but the implications for how and when religious identity forms are striking. The research points to a surprisingly early window for faith formation, and what happens inside that window matters far more than most parents realize. Join me for what I'm calling Study Hall, where I bring you along as I study for my licensure exam and connect the concepts to religion along the way. Religious formation peaks ages 3–7 Parents trump youth group, always "Let them choose" backfires Baby brains resemble psilocybin trips Trauma may reopen learning windows Warmth beats doctrine, every time Episodes Mentioned: "God Concept" (#159) Christian Heavy Music: Theology, Attachment, Power (#139) Helping Kids Know God in Healthy Ways (#174) ___________________________________________ Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/ Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKoch Faith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/ Join the Patreon for exclusive episodes (and more) every month…
People in this episode
Host: Dan Koch
Topics covered
- nature vs. nurture
- religious identity
- faith formation
- parenting
- child development
- trauma
- learning windows
Keywords
- religion
- spirituality
- faith formation
- parenting
- child development
- trauma
- learning
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: God Concept, Christian Heavy Music: Theology, Attachment, Power, Helping Kids Know God in Healthy Ways
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