226. When people put you on a pedestal... (the cost of being a high achiever)

226. When people put you on a pedestal... (the cost of being a high achiever)

February 8, 2026 · 60 min

About this episode

The episode discusses the challenges faced by high achievers in relationships where they are placed on a pedestal and the importance of mutual support.

If you’re a high achiever, you may be dealing with what I call pedestal relationships — where people place you on a pedestal, expect you to always have it together, and then don’t show up for you the same way they show up for others. In this episode I share how I realized this was happening in my life, the signs I ignored at first, and the changes I’m making so my relationships aren’t built on me being the “strong one” all the time. [Substack Post ] The Weight of Being Placed on a Pedestal: https://diaryofahighachiever.substack.com/p/the-weight-of-being-placed-on-a-pedestal Journal for High Achievers: https://secludedthoughts.com/doha Need help becoming the best version of yourself?: https://secludedthoughts.com/masterclass Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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