About this episode

DB and Dr. Lexx Brown-James discuss navigating dating and pleasure after divorce.

In this episode, DB welcomes back three-time guest Dr. Lexx Brown-James to talk about what she's learned from working with folks in relationships for almost two decades. From gaining confidence to giving yourself the time you need to the dating apps, let's break down some of what post-divorce folks might experience in dating. What is it like getting back into the dating pool after a divorce? In one word, according to Dr. Lexx: intentional. ABOUT OUR GUEST: Dr. Lexx Brown-James, LMFT, CSE, CSES is a premiere sexologist centering pleasure as a connective tool for shame free sexuality education and building intimate partner connection. As an AASECT certified sexuality educator and supervisor, Dr. Lexx lectures, trains, and does therapy for academic, professional and general audiences. As a multiple time best seller, Dr. Lexx is an international sexologist. Featured in prominent media like CNN, Essence, It Gets Better, Scary Mommy, and Therapy for Black Girls, Dr. Lexx's goal is to educate others about sexuality from womb to tomb. FROM THIS EPISODE: Come to our Bi Flirting Night on 6/12 in Oakland, CA! | Nicole Kidman divorce meme | Princess Diana revenge dress image and Wikipedia…

People in this episode

Host: Danielle Bezalel

Guest: Dr. Lexx Brown-James

Topics covered

• divorce
• dating
• sexuality
• pleasure
• relationships

Keywords

• divorce
• dating apps
• confidence
• pleasure
• sexuality education

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: AASECT

Books & works: Nicole Kidman divorce meme, Princess Diana revenge dress

Places: Oakland, CA

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