337 | Life Is Short, Have An Affair: Paul Keable & Ashley Madison

From Sex Stories: Real People Talking About Sex, Love & Relationships by Luna Robbie

March 10, 2026 · 1h 13m · Episode 337

About this episode

Paul Keable discusses the motivations behind infidelity and the dynamics of modern relationships.

Infidelity myths, sexless marriages, and compassionate affairs—Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison, shares what actually drives people to seek affairs, why many women cheat for better sex, and how secrecy, vulnerability, and unmet needs shape modern relationships. 🔗 PAUL LINKS | ashleymadison.com 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off SHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 off MOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toys ENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyone SDC: A place for swingers to connect 📈 STATS | 51 straight man, Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison, from Toronto Canada. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Married dating, discretion, and Ashley Madison 04:58 Misogyny, women’s sexuality, and why people doubt women seek affairs 10:02 Secrets, relationship rules, and why people explore outside traditional monogamy 13:18 Why more single people are joining Ashley Madison and exploring beyond “vanilla” relationships…

People in this episode

Host: Luna Robbie

Guest: Paul Keable

Topics covered

infidelity
sexless marriages
compassionate affairs
women's sexuality
modern relationships
secrecy
unmet needs

Keywords

infidelity myths
Ashley Madison
affairs
women cheating
sexless marriages
relationship rules
modern relationships

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Ashley Madison, SDC

Products: ÜBERLUBE, LORALS, FIRMTECH, SHAMELESS CARE, MOTORBUNNY, ENJOX TOYS