About this episode

Tonya shares her experiences with dirty talk, sexual shame, and the importance of communication in her erotic life.

Dirty talk orgasms, clit injuries, and an open consent policy—Tonya shares how safety, curiosity, and communication shaped her evolving erotic life. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off SHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 off MOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toys ENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyone SDC: A place for swingers to connect 📈 STATS | 41 bisexual Black woman, she/her pronouns, newly married, relationship consultant & coach, certified credit union financial counselor and educator, from Michigan, into: unexpected dirty talk, being called selfish, sensation play, bondage, power play. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Growing up Black and queer in a small white Christian town and early experiences with sexual shame 04:36 Rating her sexual shame today and how culture shaped her early beliefs about sex 09:41 Early curiosity about bodies, desire, and learning about sex in a restrictive environment 15:02 Relationship…

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