About this episode

This episode discusses the pressures men face regarding sexual performance and how to create more connected sexual experiences.

Welcome to Episode 496 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by David Chambers , who speaks to me about male sexual performance anxiety and creating more connected sexual experiences. In this episode, David and I talk about the pressure many men feel to perform during sex. We discuss how focusing on erections, penis size, orgasm and technique can disconnect men from their bodies and partners, turning intimacy into something they must successfully deliver. David Chambers, known as The Authentic Man, is a UK-based dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. With more than a decade of experience, he helps men build deeper relationships, develop healthier masculinity and create more fulfilling sexual lives. His approach centres on self-awareness, emotional intelligence, authenticity and self-leadership. In this episode, you will hear: The Pressure To Perform During Sex Why Sex Is Not A Competition Anxiety Around Penis Size How Shame Affects Male Confidence Overcoming The Fear Of Losing An Erection Communicating Sexual Anxiety With A Partner Moving Beyond Penetration Building Greater Sexual Presence Maintaining Intimacy As Men Age Co-Creating More Connected…

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