About this episode

The episode discusses common mistakes married couples make when initiating sex and explores the dynamics of desire in relationships.

In this Best of SMR episode we discuss common mistakes that married couples make when it comes to initiating sex. There are dynamics of higher desire and lower desire and patterns that make these mistakes so easy to make. We cover six common mistakes: getting annoyed at being the one who initiates, using covert or roundabout methods of initiation, joking or crude initiations, feeling the need to be as turned on as your partner, using the same initiation method every time, and talking yourself out of initiating. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … What make authenticity and vulnerability in marriage so difficult? Is it the motivations behind the vulnerability? The reactions to vulnerable moments? Both? Let's explore more. Sponsors … Evree: Our favorite intimate product! Get 10% off every order with our code SMR - https://smr.fm.evree Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Initiation Mistakes Married People Make #782 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

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Hosts: Dr Corey Allan, Pam Allan

Topics covered

• marriage
• sexual initiation
• desire dynamics
• communication
• vulnerability

Keywords

• initiation mistakes
• married couples
• sexuality
• desire
• vulnerability
• communication

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