Why You Keep Getting Ghosted (It's Not What You Think)

About this episode

This episode explores the psychological patterns behind being ghosted in relationships from a depth psychology perspective.

If you keep getting ghosted, this video is for you — and it's probably not the answer you're expecting. In this episode, I'm breaking down the pattern of being pursued, falling for someone, and then watching them disappear — from a depth psychology and Jungian perspective. Because ghosting isn't just bad luck, and it isn't just "men being men" or "women being women." It's a message from your unconscious mind. I share my own experience with this exact pattern, how it connects to childhood aban...

People in this episode

Host: Jaclyn Proper

Topics covered

• ghosting
• depth psychology
• Jungian perspective
• unconscious mind
• relationships

Keywords

• ghosting
• depth psychology
• Jungian
• relationships
• unconscious mind
• childhood abandonment

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