Breadcrumbing, Situationships & Icks Ft Menisms Podcast

About this episode

A lively conversation about modern dating, situationships, and the behaviors that turn people off.

We’re joined by Olumurewa and Isioma, hosts of the MENISMS Podcast and friends of the podcast, for a lively conversation about modern dating and the behaviors that keep showing up in it. We unpack the question “what actually makes someone a fuck boy?”, diving into things like love bombing, avoiding labels, and the rise of situationship culture, especially in the Nigerian dating scene. The conversation also takes a lighter turn as we talk about icks — the small (and sometimes ridiculous) things that instantly turn people off in dating. Overall, it’s a witty and chaotic episode filled with laughs & honest takes.  JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2B FOLLOW US ON: http://twitter.com/sonigerian_ http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_ http://twitter.com/damiar0s http://instagram.com/_damiiaros7 http://twitter.com/medici__i https://instagram.com/medici.i https://instagram.com/menismspod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People in this episode

Host: So Nigerian

Guests: Olumurewa, Isioma

Topics covered

• modern dating
• situationships
• love bombing
• Nigerian dating scene
• icks
• dating behaviors

Keywords

• breadcrumbing
• fuck boy
• love bombing
• situationship culture
• icks
• dating

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: MENISMS Podcast

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