About this episode

Matt and Steve discuss the importance of acceptance in sobriety and the challenges newcomers face.

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about acceptance in sobriety — not as approval, not as giving up, and not as pretending everything is fine. It is about getting honest with reality instead of wasting energy trying to control people, outcomes, feelings, or the past. They dig into why acceptance can feel so uncomfortable for newcomers, especially when it sounds passive or weak. The conversation gets into control, resentment, asking for help, and the simple but difficult pra...

People in this episode

Host: Matt J

Guest: Steve

Topics covered

• acceptance
• sobriety
• control
• resentment
• help

Keywords

• sobriety
• acceptance
• control
• resentment
• help

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