Sugar Babying, Motherhood & Starting Again: Mikaela's Story

About this episode

Mikaela shares her journey of navigating single motherhood, sobriety, and the challenges of online dating and personality disorders.

From a young age, Mikaela felt the pressure to please those around her, men especially. At seventeen, she met the father of her firstborn in the chaos of partying and substance use. What began as young love slowly turned into a life she felt trapped in. With a mortgage, a baby on the way and no income of her own, leaving no longer felt like an option. When she finally did leave, Mikaela was on her own with a three-month-old and little to no resources. Starting again from scratch, she navigated the highs and many lows of online dating before being introduced to the world of sugar babying. In this episode, she shares what it means to balance single motherhood, sobriety and the emotional weight of living with personality disorders. Trigger warning: This episode explores sensitive topics including substance use, mental health and personality disorders. Follow Mikaela on Instagram: @manic.dream.pixie.xo Creator & Host: ⁠⁠Julia Rangiheuea Ready to share your story? Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ hello@soberlyspeaking.com.au ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Disclaimer: The stories and experiences shared in this episode are personal accounts told in good faith. While we strive to present these narratives accurately, the views…

People in this episode

Host: Julia Rangiheuea

Guest: Mikaela

Topics covered

• single motherhood
• sobriety
• sugar babying
• mental health
• personality disorders
• online dating

Keywords

• sugar babying
• single motherhood
• sobriety
• mental health
• personality disorders
• online dating
• substance use

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Soberly Speaking, Instagram, National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline

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