1487 - Why People in Good Relationships Stop Having Great Sex w/Deborah Kat

About this episode

Deborah Kat discusses the reasons why people in good relationships stop having great sex and shares insights from her experience as a sex and relationship coach.

Deborah Kat called in to talk al about why people in good relationships stop having great sex. Tue in to hear al he details including how she wound up in a non-monogamous relationship and how it has worked for her, the issues her and her partner have had in the bedroom and how she went about fixing them, how and why she decided to become a sex and relationship coach, what tantra means and how she brings it into her sessions to help people, the top three reasons people in good relationships stop having good sex, what comes first lack of attraction or disconnection, reconnection rituals that work, why divorce is looked at so negatively and why it shouldn’t always be, what an erotic blueprint is and how to use it to help identify what your partner is into and why it’s so important, why having someone help facilitate conversations can be a game changer plus a whole lot more. You can find her free gift here: https://www.deborahkat.com GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE…

People in this episode

Host: Kathy Kay

Guest: Deborah Kat

Topics covered

• relationships
• sex
• coaching
• tantra
• communication
• non-monogamy

Keywords

• great sex
• relationships
• non-monogamous
• tantra
• communication
• erotic blueprint
• reconnection rituals

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