Episode #98:  How Toxic Relationships Make You Feel Unlovable (And How to Heal) | Ashana Kaiulani

Episode #98: How Toxic Relationships Make You Feel Unlovable (And How to Heal) | Ashana Kaiulani

April 8, 2026 · 33 min · Season 1 · Episode 98

About this episode

The episode explores the impact of toxic relationships on self-worth and identity, featuring insights from trauma support specialist Ashana Kaiulani.

In this powerful episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships, we sit down with trauma support specialist and reclamation coach Ashana Kaiulani to unpack what toxic relationships really do to your identity, self-worth, and ability to receive love. We dive into: Why toxic relationships make you feel unlovableThe truth about “reactive abuse” and self-blameHow trauma rewires your identity and behaviorsWhy you can’t “think” your way into healingThe role of safe relationships in true recoveryHow to so...

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