About this episode

The episode explores the transition from sexual shame to confidence in gay men as they age.

This week, they ask: when did sex stop feeling shameful — and what changes once you enter your shameless era? From flirting and DMs to hookups, turn-ons, aging, confidence, and knowing exactly what you want, Steve and Kodi get into why gay men can become bolder, freer, and even sexier with age. Plus: Pride, desire, daddy energy, directness, and the confidence kink.

People in this episode

Host: Steve V. Rodriguez

Guest: Kodi

Topics covered

• sexual confidence
• shame
• aging
• gay men
• desire
• Pride
• confidence kink

Keywords

• sexual confidence
• shame
• gay men
• aging
• desire
• Pride
• confidence kink

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