She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back

She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back

July 8, 2026 · 47 min

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The episode discusses the phenomenon of dissociation during sex and how to address it, featuring insights from sex therapist Vanessa Cushing.

Send us Fan Mail You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent. Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different. ...

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Host: Annette

Guest: Vanessa Cushing

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Organizations: Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro, AASECT

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