About this episode
Lauren and Christie discuss the often-ignored aspects of grief with guest Nicky, who shares her personal journey and insights on intimacy and dating after loss.
What are the sides to grief that nobody talks about? Lauren and Christie find out this week on Tea At Four. Nicky joins us to share her experience of losing her husband, and how her grief changed her reality. She tells us about 'Widow's Fire', why grief makes you crave you life, and how she turned this experience into a dating app for widows. In a completely candid chat, we break the taboo on intimacy after death, sex life in your 50's, and being aware of your dead partner watching you have fun...You can find Nicky at @nickywakewidow, and if you looking for dating help after loss be sure to look into WidowsFire and Chapter 2.If you want to suggest a guest for us to have on Tea At Four, let us know at @teaatfour@junglecreations.com, or DM us on Insta @teaatfourpod x
People in this episode
Hosts: Lauren, Christie
Guest: Nicky
Topics covered
- grief
- intimacy after death
- dating after loss
- personal experiences
- taboos in society
Keywords
- grief
- intimacy
- dating app
- widows
- personal stories
- loss
- taboos
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Widow's Fire, Chapter 2, Tea At Four
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