Stop Making Excuses and Just Start Already

About this episode

Berenice and Ella discuss overcoming excuses related to imposter syndrome and the challenges of starting new ventures.

Berenice and Ella are calling out the "ifs and buts" — all those sneaky excuses around imposter syndrome, waiting for the right equipment, and fear of lifestyle change that keep you from starting something new. They get real about proof of concept before over-investing, quitting a corporate job before you feel ready, and why resilience from growing up without money is actually a secret weapon. The girls also get into the ball culture scene, the 3–4 month wall that makes people quit relationships and passion projects alike, and why a little delusion might be exactly what you need to keep going. If you've ever said "if I just had [X], then I'd finally start," this one's for you. Follow the girls on social! 📲 IG: @thanks4urconcern | @berenicediazm | @ellaltudor TikTok: @thanks4yourconcern | @berenicediazm | YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thanksforyourconcernpod YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ellaltudor

People in this episode

Hosts: Berenice, Ella

Topics covered

• imposter syndrome
• resilience
• lifestyle change
• ball culture
• relationships
• passion projects

Keywords

• imposter syndrome
• excuses
• resilience
• lifestyle change
• ball culture
• relationships
• passion projects

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Thanks For Your Concern Productions, YouTube

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