What Is Maturity?
About this episode
Dan Allender and Rachael Clinton Chen discuss a different vision of maturity shaped by truth-telling, curiosity, and humility.
What does true maturity actually look like? Is it age? Experience? Having the right answers? Many of us grew up assuming we would recognize maturity when we saw it. We looked to parents, pastors, leaders, and institutions to show us what it meant to be wise, trustworthy, and faithful. Yet over time, some of those assumptions have been challenged. People we admired have disappointed us. Systems we trusted have fallen short. And if we're honest, we've disappointed ourselves too. So where does that leave us? This week, Dan Allender and Rachael Clinton Chen wrestle with a different vision of maturity—one shaped less by certainty and control and more by truth-telling, curiosity, humility, and a growing orientation toward the heart of God. Drawing from Jeremiah's lament, Micah 6:8, and their own stories, they explore why maturity is often forged in the midst of struggle rather than certainty. They also reflect on the gift of trustworthy companions. These are people who help us ask better questions, tell the truth about our lives, and remind us that growth was never meant to happen alone. After all, one of the clearest signs of maturity may be knowing when it's time to reach out to…
People in this episode
Hosts: Dan Allender, Rachael Clinton Chen
Topics covered
- maturity
- spiritual growth
- truth-telling
- curiosity
- humility
- companionship
Keywords
- maturity
- spirituality
- growth
- trustworthy companions
- struggle
- faithfulness
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: Jeremiah's lament, Micah 6:8
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