An Ex-Pastor Exposes The Church’s Blueprint For Controlling Women (feat. Brian Recker)

An Ex-Pastor Exposes The Church’s Blueprint For Controlling Women (feat. Brian Recker)

June 22, 2026 · 1h 44m · Episode 85

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The episode features a discussion with former pastor Brian Recker about the church's influence on women's roles and rights within evangelicalism.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by former evangelical pastor turned author and advocate Brian Recker to unpack a question many women who grew up in religious spaces have been asking: Was the church designed to control women? Together, they explore how evangelical teachings around gender, marriage, sexuality, and obedience can reinforce patriarchal power structures and shape the way women understand themselves, their relationships, and their place in the world. Brian shares his own journey of deconstructing his faith, the loss of community that often comes with questioning long-held beliefs, and why he ultimately became an outspoken advocate for women and LGBTQ+ rights. The conversation dives into the ways scripture has been weaponized against women, the realities of coercion and consent within Christian marriage, and how fear, shame, and rigid gender expectations can keep people trapped in harmful systems. They also examine Christian nationalism, the historical ties between religion and supremacy, and whether spirituality can exist without oppression. This is a conversation about power, belonging, faith, and what happens when…

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