About this episode

The episode discusses the complexities of friendship breakups and their emotional impact, alongside community norms and personal beliefs.

Season 4 continues and this one gets real. We start with The Quickie asking what’s being normalized in our community that shouldn’t be… and what people keep defending for no reason. After a quick check-in, we get into a Letter from the Pushers about dating, exclusivity, and whether you can really be upset when nothing was clearly defined. We also pull from the Black Gay Agenda card game and talk about beliefs we used to stand on that don’t hit the same anymore. Then we get into friendship breakups. • Do they hurt more than relationships • How you know things are shifting • Closure vs. just moving on • And being honest about when you were the problem We close with The Agenda Moving Forward and get clear about what we’re no longer accepting in friendships. ⸻ 🎧 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/WtbOXlVNLwU ⸻ 💸 Support The Black Gay Agenda: CashApp: $BlackGayAgenda PayPal: paypal.me/blackgayagenda ⸻ 📩 Send your letters: contact@blackgayagenda.com ⸻ 📲 Follow us: Micah — https://instagram.com/itsmicahb Alex — https://instagram.com/xandert82 AP — https://www.instagram.com/whereisalexpin Dupree — https://www.instagram.com/dupreetheartist The Show —…

People in this episode

Hosts: Micah, Alex, AP, Dupree

Topics covered

• friendship breakups
• dating
• exclusivity
• closure
• community norms

Keywords

• friendship
• breakup
• dating
• closure
• community
• exclusivity
• beliefs

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