The Access Audit: How to Know When Someone’s Access Needs to Change, Even Family

The Access Audit: How to Know When Someone’s Access Needs to Change, Even Family

June 25, 2026 · 47 min

About this episode

This episode explores how to assess and change access to individuals in your life, particularly family, using examples from The Lion King.

If you’ve ever wondered whether someone’s access to you needs to change, but felt guilty because they are family, this episode will help you separate love from access without abandoning your discernment. In this episode, Haelly uses Scar and Simba from The Lion King as a case study for betrayal, duplicity, and unsafe access. She breaks down why Simba trusted Scar, why family roles can create assumed safety, and why rupture without repair should change someone’s access to you, your heart, your...

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