About this episode

Ash and Tanya share their unexpected journey into the swinger lifestyle and their experiences on reality TV.

Dirty Secrets Ep 049 Ash & Tanya – Swinger Clubs, Reality TV Drama & LifestyleRules 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ash & Tanya What happens when a random night out turns into a full-blown swinger lifestyle… and then lands you on reality TV? 😏 Ash & Tanya share how one unexpected question sparked their journey, how they found a club four minutes from their house, and why their first experiences were equal parts hot and chaotic (wait until you hear the Viagra story…). We get into the real rules that make swinging work, how to avoid resentment, and why “don’t take one for the team” might be the most important advice you’ll ever hear. Plus, their reality TV experience where producers literally tried to mess with their relationship for entertainment… yeah, it’s wild. Come laugh with us. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ashandtanya

People in this episode

Host: Kate Shelor

Guests: Ash, Tanya

Topics covered

• swinger clubs
• reality TV
• lifestyle rules
• relationships
• sexuality

Keywords

• swinging
• reality TV drama
• lifestyle
• relationships
• Viagra story

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Organizations: Dirty Secrets Podcast

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