The Maternal Instinct Is DYING - Here's How 3 Generations Killed It ft. Erica Komisar

The Maternal Instinct Is DYING - Here's How 3 Generations Killed It ft. Erica Komisar

July 30, 2026 · 44 min

About this episode

The episode features an interview with Erica Komisar discussing the decline of maternal instincts and the impact of cultural shifts on motherhood.

We've mentioned Erica Komisar multiple times on this podcast, so it's a great pleasure to be able to interview her on today's episode. Erica is a mother, clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, parent coach, and author. She is particularly known for her defense of motherhood and a woman's instinct to mother against our very anti-family culture. This conversation gave a lot of scientific background to a lot of what we talk about here at Family Teams, as well as extremely helpful practical wisdom for parents today. On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 0:19 The Instinct of a Mother 3:00 The Value of Guilt 6:38 The Nature of Empathy 11:32 "Parenting" vs "Mothering" 19:45 The Fragility of Young Boys 25:17 3 Traditions 32:05 Why It's Important To Call This Injustice 34:38 Multigenerational Family As The Answer? 40:34 The Cost of Conflict and Speaking Up Resources Mentioned: Erica's Website: https://www.ericakomisar.com/ Being There by Erica Komisar: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0143109294/ Free 5 Day Course to Transform Your Family Into A Team: https://familyteams.com/transform --- Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram…

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Hosts: Jefferson Bethke, Jeremy Pryor

Guest: Erica Komisar

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Organizations: Family Teams, Erica's Website

Books & works: Being There

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