276: The Trap of "We'll See" | Why Dads Need to Be Decisive
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Nole and Kevin discuss the negative impact of the phrase 'we'll see' in fatherhood and marriage.
In this episode of The Fire You Carry, Nole and Kevin dive deep into a subtle but damaging trap of fatherhood and marriage: the default phrase, "we'll see." Why is it that men can be incredibly decisive, clear, and direct on the fireground, but the moment they walk through the front door, they turn into passive politicians? The guys break down why "we'll see" isn't actually a gentle answer; it's a "soft-ass no" that breeds anxiety in our kids and leaves an unfair mental load on our wives. Bef...
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