Joel Del Rosario on Surviving an IED in Iraq, Losing His Memory, and Owning Every Decision After

Joel Del Rosario on Surviving an IED in Iraq, Losing His Memory, and Owning Every Decision After

June 30, 2026 · 21 min · Season 2026 · Episode 25

About this episode

Joel Del Rosario shares his journey of survival after an IED blast in Iraq, emphasizing the importance of personal ownership and mental toughness.

Joel Del Rosario enlisted in the Marine Corps in 2005 because a girl asked him to. She left him with a Dear John letter while he was deployed to Iraq. Then an IED nearly killed him. His mother received an incorrect killed-in-action notification and believed her son was dead for 24 hours. When Joel came to after the blast, shrapnel in his body and a traumatic brain injury that erased most of his memories, he was not relieved. He was angry that he survived. That disgust with his own reaction became the turning point. He chose ownership. Nobody forced him to enlist. That was his decision. And from that moment, he committed to 21 years of service instead of coasting to the exit. Joe De Sena sits down with Joel to talk about growing up in the Dominican Republic, a tough Latina single mother in Providence, the blast that rewired his brain, and the law-enforcement fitness mission he now runs alongside his wife, Rebecca, through Iron Stronghold LLC and MCHN. Things You Will Learn: Why taking ownership of a bad decision matters more than the decision itself. The difference between surviving hardship and choosing to build from it. A simple daily framework for building mental toughness…

People in this episode

Host: Joe De Sena

Guest: Joel Del Rosario

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Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Iron Stronghold LLC, MCHN

Places: Iraq, Dominican Republic, Providence

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