Trauma Bonds: Why You Keep Going Back After Infidelity and Betrayal

Trauma Bonds: Why You Keep Going Back After Infidelity and Betrayal

July 13, 2026 · 11 min

About this episode

This episode explores the concept of trauma bonds and why individuals may return to harmful relationships after infidelity and betrayal.

📞 BOOK A CALL HERE: https://www.jordanapodaca.com/   Why do you keep going back to someone you know is hurting you? Trauma bonds can form after infidelity, emotional abuse, repeated broken promises, or any relationship where the same person becomes both your source of pain and your source of comfort. In this episode, I explain why leaving can feel unbearable, why going back brings temporary relief, and how to begin weakening the attachment without relying on anger alone. If you’re struggling to break this cycle or heal from betrayal, book a free call with me to learn how I can help. 📞 BOOK A CALL HERE: https://www.jordanapodaca.com/   --------------------------------------------------------------------- JJA Consulting LLC • Fully insured through Alternative Balance LLC • Based in Michigan • Appointments via Zoom • Confidential and results-based. Disclaimer Jordan Apodaca is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. His services are for educational and coaching purposes only and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any mental or medical condition. Individual results vary. If you are in crisis or need clinical support, please reach…

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