Why You Overthink Every Conversation After It Ends ft. Shadé Zahrai

Why You Overthink Every Conversation After It Ends ft. Shadé Zahrai

April 28, 2026 · 1h 5m · Season 2 · Episode 64

About this episode

The episode explores the science behind self-doubt and how to manage the inner critic that often arises after conversations.

There’s a voice in your head—and it’s shaping more of your life than you realize. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shadé Zahrai to break down the real science behind self-doubt, where it comes from, and why it shows up strongest after your conversations—not before them. We walk through the four hidden “voices” driving your inner critic and how to separate from them so they stop running the show. If you’ve ever replayed a conversation in your head or felt like you’re not enough, this episode gives you the tools to change that. Buy her book Big Trust: Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, and Fuel Success: https://www.shadezahrai.com/bigtrust Take Shadé’s Doubt Profile Quiz: https://www.shadezahrai.com/doubtprofile Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. ZocDoc. https://zocdoc.com/jefferson to find and instantly book a doctor you love today. Dose. Save 35% on your first month of subscription by going…

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Host: Jefferson Fisher

Guest: Dr. Shadé Zahrai

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Cozy Earth, ZocDoc, Dose, BetterHelp

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Organizations: Civility Media

Products: Big Trust: Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, and Fuel Success

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