Ep 512: Why Taking Sides Is A Huge Source of Inner Conflict

Ep 512: Why Taking Sides Is A Huge Source of Inner Conflict

July 14, 2026 · 32 min · Episode 512

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Jim Fortin discusses how taking sides creates inner conflict and offers insights on achieving true peace.

Start Your Transformation Now  In this episode of The Jim Fortin Podcast, Jim explores why conflict isn't something that exists "out there" in the world, but is instead created the moment a person takes a side. He argues that all division — political, religious, personal — is a product of the human ego identifying with a single, limited interpretation of reality, and that true peace only returns when a person stops defending a position and remembers themselves as consciousness rather than the body or the belief.  Jim illustrates this with a personal story about getting scammed by a fake towing company, his upbringing around fundamentalist preachers in Texas, and a Coca-Cola versus Pepsi metaphor he uses to describe "mastering neutrality." He also examines how this same dynamic shows up in parenting, where trying to control or judge a adult child's choices is really just another form of taking sides.  This episode offers listeners a practical way to recognize when they've fallen into righteousness or division — and how to return to peace instead.  What You’ll Discover in This Episode:  (00:00) Where conflict actually comes from — Jim explains that…

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