What F You Money Really Is & Why Every Woman Needs it, RHOBH Tea, Don't Date Broke Dudes with Pattie Ehsaei

About this episode

Pattie Ehsaei discusses financial independence and the importance of 'F*** You Money' for women, particularly stepmoms.

Women's financial expert and the author of Never Date a Broke Dude Pattie Ehsaei joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to shift your perspective on finances, self worth and how to get what you financially deserve as a stepmom. Pattie gives her thoughts on being financially dependent on men, why all women need 'F*** You Money', the real work and strategies necessary to manifest money, the importance of being 'financially intimate' with your partner, and even why RHOBH is such a great case study for financial relationship red flags. Follow Pattie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ Get My Free Ebook - 12 Things Stepmom Coaches Don't Have the Guts to Tell You www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freebie Masterclass: How to Stop Letting a High Conflict Ex Hijack Your Life www.jamiescrimgeour.com/masterclass Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order. LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase.

People in this episode

Host: Jamie Scrimgeour

Guest: Pattie Ehsaei

Topics covered

• financial independence
• self-worth
• relationships
• stepmom advice
• money management

Keywords

• financial expert
• self-worth
• F*** You Money
• financial intimacy
• relationship red flags

Sponsors

Cozy Earth, LMNT

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: RHOBH

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