# 167 - Your Growth Will Disturb People. This Is Why . . .
From The Lemon Tree Coaching by Dr. Allison Sucamele
May 27, 2026 · 20 min · Episode 167
About this episode
Dr. Allison Sucamele discusses how personal growth can disrupt relationships and the psychological reasons behind it.
Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today. What happens when your healing changes the relationships around you? In this episode of The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast, Dr. Allison Sucamele explores the psychology behind why personal growth can make others uncomfortable. From boundaries and people-pleasing to family systems, cognitive dissonance, trauma bonds, and emotional homeostasis, this episode unpacks why healing often disrupts familiar dynamics. Sometimes growth...
People in this episode
Host: Dr. Allison Sucamele
Topics covered
- personal growth
- relationships
- psychology
- boundaries
- people-pleasing
- trauma bonds
- emotional homeostasis
Keywords
- healing
- cognitive dissonance
- family systems
- growth
- dynamics
- disruption
- mental health
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