About this episode

Matin shares her journey of coping with grief and finding resilience after the loss of her mother.

There is a kind of grief that never gets to happen out loud. It stays pressed down inside you, shaped by the people around you who couldn't hold it. Matin knows that grief. She found out her mother had died by reaching for a hand that didn't reach back. She was thirteen. And then the world she had counted on, her mother's family, her father's warmth, the permission to even cry, quietly fell away. What followed was years of building a life on her own terms. Studying in secret. Sleeping on hard surfaces just to avoid going home. Moving from Iran to Japan to finally have room to breathe. She did it without anyone telling her she could. She did it by becoming her own closest companion, the kind of friend who says, I remember when that happened, and we got through it together. Matin is a plant molecular biologist who studies mangrove trees, organisms that live between land and sea, in conditions most things can't survive. She sees herself in them. In this conversation, she shares what it took to finally reach peace, and why she believes all of us should talk about our stories, not as something brave or rare, but as something ordinary and necessary. What You'll Hear: Growing up with a…

People in this episode

Host: Matt Gilhooly

Guest: Matin

Topics covered

• grief
• resilience
• personal growth
• loss
• inner friendship

Keywords

• grief
• resilience
• loss
• personal story
• inner friendship
• molecular biology
• mangrove trees

Mentioned in this episode

Places: Iran, Japan

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