The Art of Losing Yourself: Discovering New Depths in Parenthood with Jason Seeman

The Art of Losing Yourself: Discovering New Depths in Parenthood with Jason Seeman

March 2, 2026 · 54 min · Season 1 · Episode 5

About this episode

This episode explores the paradox of losing oneself in parenthood while discovering a deeper, more authentic identity through mindfulness and presence.

Losing ourselves is often painted as a tragedy of parenthood — but what if it’s actually the secret to becoming more whole? In this powerful episode of Growing Together , Jason & I uncover how the inevitable process of self-loss in parenthood can become a profound opportunity for growth, connection, and rediscovery. Jason shares how becoming a father forced him to confront the paradox of losing himself while also finding a deeper, more authentic part of who he is. He reveals how moments of intense presence with his children have transformed his internal tension into pure joy. I reflect on my ongoing practice of discipline and mindfulness, highlighting that true presence doesn’t come effortlessly but requires active effort. I discuss how shedding your armour and embracing imperfection teaches our children resilience and authenticity, and how parenthood can be the ultimate mirror revealing our deepest truths. In this episode: Discussing the paradox of losing oneself in parenthood while discovering a deeper, more authentic identity. Practical strategies for achieving presence, such as digital detoxes and mindful interactions with children. The transformation of internal tension…

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