The Art of Fighting

The Art of Fighting

September 3, 2026 · 24 min

About this episode

The episode discusses how conflict can be transformative and beneficial for relationships, featuring insights from Priya Parker and Kim Polinder.

Conflict gets a bad rap—but avoiding it can leave relationships shallow, tense, and stuck. In The Art of Fighting: The Transformative Power of Conflict, Priya Parker reveals how healthy disagreement can strengthen groups, friendships, and communities. Then, in Why We Fight: A Transformative Road Map to Healing Conflict in Any Relationship, Kim Polinder explains how old wounds and nervous-system alarms can hijack our most intimate arguments. Together, they offer a smarter way to choose the fights that matter, stay connected when things get heated, and turn conflict from a threat into an opportunity. 🎁 Save 20% on a Next Big Idea Club membership when you used code PODCAST at ⁠nextbigideaclub.com⁠ ✉️ Get big ideas in your inbox with our daily newsletter. Subscribe at ⁠bookoftheday.nextbigideaclub.com⁠ Sponsored By: Shopify — Nothing stands between your idea and a real business. So go make it one. Start your free trial at shopify.com/daily FODZYME — Finally, you can enjoy your favorite foods without the pain. Go to icaneatagain.com/daily for 30% off your first order. Quince — Make your summer wardrobe easier. Go to quince.com/nbid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

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Guests: Priya Parker, Kim Polinder

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