I do want SEX just not with YOU

About this episode

The episode discusses the challenges of a sexless marriage and offers strategies for rebuilding intimacy.

On our Walk and Talk episode, we explore the reality of a sexless marriage (dead bedroom) and the silent pain of couples experiencing emotional and physical disconnection. Through raw, honest insights, we dissect how unspoken resentments, fear of rejection, and societal expectations can erode intimacy over time, and we offer practical strategies for rebuilding a genuine connection. Whether you are experiencing skin hunger, navigating a difficult season or looking to protect your relationship...

People in this episode

Hosts: Elliot, Fifi, Lottie

Topics covered

• sexless marriage
• emotional disconnection
• physical disconnection
• intimacy
• relationship strategies
• resentments
• skin hunger

Keywords

• sexless marriage
• intimacy
• emotional disconnection
• relationship advice
• skin hunger
• resentment
• couples therapy

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