Your Child Isn’t Too Anxious… They’re Too Alive

Your Child Isn’t Too Anxious… They’re Too Alive

May 17, 2026 · 12 min

About this episode

This episode discusses how to support children facing anxiety in competitive sports by understanding their emotional needs.

Your child works hard. They care deeply. And every single competition day — they fall apart.Shaking. Throwing up. Running to the bathroom. And you don't know what to say anymore.In this episode I share two real stories from parents just like you — a 14-year-old track runner and a 15-year-old wrestler — both performing well, both physically falling apart before every competition. And I want to show you what is really happening, and what to actually do about it.Because here's what I want you to hear: your child isn't too anxious. They're too alive. And that is a very different problem — with a very different solution.In this episode:Why telling your child to "breathe" and "it's okay" is not enough — and what they actually need from youThe first shift: how to help your child step out of the center and connect to their deeper whyThe second shift: how to bring them back to the internal joy of their sport — and why that's what makes them perform betterThe ancient Jewish wisdom of light and vessel — and why your child's anxiety is actually their greatest gift, uncontainedThis episode is for every parent who sees their child's potential more clearly than the child…

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