A Pilot's Stolen Identity Leaves a Trail of Broken Hearts, Part 1

A Pilot's Stolen Identity Leaves a Trail of Broken Hearts, Part 1

June 19, 2026 · 35 min · Episode 258

About this episode

The episode explores Pam's experience with a scammer who impersonates a pilot to steal money from her through an online romance.

When Pam decides it's time to find love again, she signs up for a dating site and soon meets "Pat." He's charming and very kind; they hit it off right away. "Pat" works overseas and can't tell Pam much about his high-security job, but when he needs help getting back into the country, she lends him $20,000. This all sounds very suspicious to Pam's son-in-law, who does some digging and tracks down a man with the same name and face as the man Pam's been talking to nearly every day for several months. The legitimate Pat explains to Pam how a scammer is impersonating him in order to steal money from her. It turns out that Pam is one of many victims who've reached out to the real Pat.

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