Parenting Through Play: Dr. Kim Van Dusen’s Simple Strategies to Reduce Tantrums, Improve Behavior, and Strengthen Family Connection

Parenting Through Play: Dr. Kim Van Dusen’s Simple Strategies to Reduce Tantrums, Improve Behavior, and Strengthen Family Connection

From The Running Wine Mom by Samantha Cieslinski

June 2, 2026 · 52 min · Episode 150

About this episode

This episode explores how play can be a powerful tool in parenting to reduce tantrums and strengthen family connections.

What if the secret to fewer power struggles, better behavior, and a stronger connection with your child isn't another parenting hack—but play? In this episode of The Running Wine Mom , Samantha sits down with licensed therapist, registered play therapist, professor, podcast host, and author Dr. Kim Van Dusen to discuss her new book, Parenting Through Play . Together, they unpack why play is one of the most overlooked parenting tools, how it helps children communicate emotions, and practical ways parents can use playful strategies to navigate tantrums, sibling conflicts, picky eating, transitions, and everyday family stress. Dr. Kim shares the science behind play therapy, the inspiration behind becoming The Parentologist , and why connection—not punishment—is often the missing piece when parents feel stuck. She also offers simple play-based techniques that can be implemented immediately, even by busy, exhausted parents. Whether you're raising toddlers, navigating the tween years, or supporting a neurodivergent child, this conversation is packed with practical tools that can help bring more peace and connection into your home. In This Episode: Why play is a child's primary language…

People in this episode

Host: Samantha Cieslinski

Guest: Dr. Kim Van Dusen

Topics covered

  • play-based parenting
  • reducing tantrums
  • family connection
  • communication through play
  • strategies for picky eaters
  • supporting neurodivergent children

Keywords

  • play therapy
  • parenting strategies
  • tantrums
  • sibling conflicts
  • neurodivergent support
  • family stress
  • connection-based parenting

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Parenting Through Play

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