How To Find Your Personal Style in 2026 (Without Generic Dated 'Rules')
About this episode
In this episode, Lisa Gillbe discusses how to find your personal style by focusing on authenticity rather than generic fashion rules.
In this episode, we’re throwing out the tired, generic style advice that’s been making women feel like they’re getting it “wrong” for years. You don’t need another list of “must-haves”, body shape diagrams, or colour rules – you need to start asking one powerful question: “Is this me?” Not: Does this flatter my figure? Is this the right colour for my undertone? Is this on trend for my age? Those questions are rooted in shame, judgment and external rules. This conversation is about coming back to you. In this episode, I talk about: Why generic style rules are failing you (and why they feel so flat and boring) The problem with shame-based advice like “does this flatter me?” Replacing “Is this flattering?” with “Is this me?” as your core style filter How your current wardrobe is already full of clues about your true style What your home, decor and environment reveal about what you’re genuinely drawn to How your upbringing, music, culture and memories quietly shape your taste Why we’ve never been taught to trust our instincts with style – and how to change that A simple process to start decoding your personal style from what you already own You’ll learn: How to spot the pieces you…
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