477. Why "Talking" About Your Sex Life With Your Spouse Doesn’t Automatically Make It Better - What To Do With Sex Therapist Austin

About this episode

The episode discusses the challenges couples face regarding differing levels of intimacy and how to effectively communicate about it.

In most marriages, one spouse has a higher desire for intimacy, while the other has a lower desire. And if you’re being honest… navigating that difference can feel exhausting, confusing, and lonely. You talk about it. You have the hard conversations. Things improve for a few days… maybe even a week. But then somehow, you find yourselves stuck in the exact same argument again and again, wondering why nothing is actually changing and why your spouse still doesn’t seem to hear or respond to what...

People in this episode

Hosts: Nick, Amy

Guest: Austin

Topics covered

• intimacy
• marriage
• communication
• sex therapy
• desire differences

Keywords

• intimacy
• sex life
• marriage communication
• sex therapist
• desire differences

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