I Ordered a Martini, He Ordered Water: First-Date Red Flags Exposed
About this episode
Debbie Diaz discusses the red flags encountered during a disastrous lunch date, emphasizing dating etiquette and social awareness.
What happens when you finally say yes to a “ lunch date” … and it turns into a master class and what not to do? In this episode of The VAGINAZ Podcast, Debbie Diaz breaks down a real life mini meeting that checked every red flag box imaginable - late arrival, awkward PDA, zero conversation prep, sobriety over sharing, ex family entanglements, and a level of delusion that deserves its own certification exam. Joined by digital cohosts Grok and Just Ask Brad, Debbie unpacked dating etiquette, polite, shutdowns, and why standards aren’t the problem - poor social calibration is. This isn’t about bashing men . It’s about awareness, boundaries, and why first impression still matter . If you’re navigating the dating scene, re-entering after a focus era, I just need a laugh while nodding aggressively in agreement - this one’s for you. Press play, sip something strong, and take notes .
People in this episode
Host: Debbie Diaz
Topics covered
- dating etiquette
- first-date red flags
- social calibration
- boundaries
- awareness
Keywords
- first date
- red flags
- dating
- etiquette
- social skills
- relationships
- boundaries
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