172. When Narcissists Use Illness to Manipulate: How to Spot It and Protect Your Peace

About this episode

This episode discusses how illness can be manipulated in narcissistic relationships and offers guidance on recognizing red flags and protecting personal boundaries.

Hey, Survivor! Illness is real—but it can also be used for manipulation in narcissistic and toxic relationships. Patterns matter. In this episode, we’ll explore how some individuals use illness to gain sympathy, avoid accountability, and control others—and how you can recognize red flags and protect your boundaries and peace. If you’ve ever felt confused or guilty for questioning someone’s illness - inwardly or outright, this episode will help you trust yourself again. 🎧 Listen now and remember: Be kind and care—but stay aware. Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are. 💚Lesley Book your call here. Become a Vibrant Survivor insider here. Let's connect on IG! Share today's episode and tag me @thevibrantsurvivor Contact support@lesleycain.com

People in this episode

Host: Lesley Cain

Topics covered

• narcissism
• manipulation
• illness
• toxic relationships
• boundaries
• self-trust

Keywords

• narcissist
• manipulation
• illness
• toxic relationships
• red flags
• boundaries
• self-trust

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