Approval
About this episode
Xero reflects on the dangers of seeking approval from others and its impact on creativity and self-worth.
In this episode, Xero reflects on a quote often attributed to Rick Warren: “If you live for the approval of others, you’ll die by their rejection.” He explores how this idea applies not only to everyday life but especially to the challenges of being a creative person. He argues that modern culture publicly criticizes the desire for approval while simultaneously encouraging it through social media, where likes, shares, and algorithms reward external validation. Although creators often chase engagement for practical reasons, he believes the underlying danger of tying your self-worth to other people’s reactions still remains. The discussion shifts toward art and ministry. Drawing from a recent Bible study, he reflects on the idea that God doesn’t need our creative work; instead, creativity should naturally flow from a relationship with Him. He recalls that his favorite music came from songs written as prayers and worship rather than attempts to impress people. From there, he challenges what he sees as a growing sense of entitlement among creators. Whether it’s appeals to support someone because they’re Black, Christian, or part of another identity group, he argues that audiences are…
People in this episode
Host: Xero
Topics covered
- approval
- creativity
- self-worth
- social media
- art
- ministry
- audience engagement
Keywords
- approval
- creativity
- social media
- self-worth
- audience engagement
- art
- ministry
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: Bible study
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