About this episode

The episode features a discussion with James Humecky about somatic pleasure, body awareness, and personal relationship insights.

Our guest is a male provider of touch to women clients. He has worked as a surrogate partner, coach and more. Let's talk about clients, and attachment, and our own personal relationship tips and pitfalls. 2:00 a somatic approach to sex 4:00 better sex comes from body awareness 7:00 when it sucks to be 'in your body' 11:00 requirements for working as a surrogate 15:00 go explore! 19:00 some of us are drawn to sex work 18:00 male sw profiles from hell 22:00 why pay for it? 30:00 clients attaching to him 37:00 no dating at this time 40:00 sunlight and showering is key for me 44:00 orgasm retreat-events 48:00 upcoming events 52:00 aim to diversify and inform self, how? 55:00 sex tips and breathing FIND YOUR GUEST: JamesHumecky.com FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at Nethe rlandsWax.com Co ndomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

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