
About this episode
Bob Brigham explores his adoption and the impact of the Vietnam War on his identity.
Bob Brigham always knew he was adopted, but growing up, he didn’t know anything about his biological parents. When he was seven years old, a social worker came for a visit and Bob heard her whisper something to his mother – something about the Vietnam War. “Within a nanosecond, I created a story in my head.” Bob Brigham's book is This Is a True War Story. My Improbable History with Vietnam. Say hello on Facebook and Instagram. Follow the show and review us on Apple Podcasts. Want to listen to This is Love ad-free? Sign up for Criminal Plus – you’ll get to listen to This is Love, Criminal, and Phoebe Reads a Mystery without any ads. Plus, you’ll get behind-the-scenes bonus episodes of Criminal and other exclusive benefits. Learn more and sign up here. We also make Criminal and Phoebe Reads a Mystery. Artwork by Julienne Alexander. Check out our online shop. Episode transcripts are posted on our website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
People in this episode
Guest: Bob Brigham
Topics covered
- adoption
- Vietnam War
- personal history
- identity
- family
Keywords
- adoption
- Vietnam War
- personal story
- identity
- family history
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Vox Media Podcast Network, Criminal Plus, Criminal, Phoebe Reads a Mystery
Books & works: This Is a True War Story
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