Episode 8: Hot Shrink For A Hot Minute: Erotic Transference Part II

About this episode

Rachael explores the complexities of erotic transference and countertransference in therapy, highlighting the interplay of illusion and reality.

In this episode, Rachael plumbs the mysteries of the erotic, both in the transference and the countertransference; mysterious because it occurs in liminal or transitional space as Winnicott would say. It is a space of illusion and disillusion where it is not clear what belongs to who. Both Rachael and her patient playfully enjoy the experience, while both in their own way bring in a third to dilute the experience. Rachael becomes aware of her own loss in this and is able both to observe and experience it while also observing and experiencing her patient's change. Together with Gill, the associators conclude that sometimes it is better to settle the waters by not stirring them. The erotic is often beyond words, and thus leaving the erotic known but unarticulated is, in this instance, a good option.

People in this episode

Hosts: Rachael, Gill

Topics covered

• erotic transference
• countertransference
• psychotherapy
• Winnicott
• liminal space

Keywords

• erotic
• transference
• countertransference
• psychotherapy
• Winnicott
• liminal space
• illusion
• disillusion

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