1163: Kimmy Seltzer - "Charisma, Confidence, Connection"

1163: Kimmy Seltzer - "Charisma, Confidence, Connection"

From Thrive LouD with Lou Diamond by Lou Diamond

June 4, 2026 · 36 min · Season 2026 · Episode 1163

About this episode

Lou Diamond interviews Kimmy Seltzer about confidence and dating strategies for finding love after 40.

What if the secret to finding love—at any age—has nothing to do with apps, luck, or even your own timeline, but starts with how you see (and show) yourself to the world? On this episode of Thrive LouD, Lou Diamond sits down with internationally renowned confidence therapist, dating strategist, and image expert Kimmy Seltzer for a refreshingly candid conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about dating—especially after 40. From her transformational "outside-in" approach and the viral story behind her life-changing red dress, to advice for men and women re-entering the dating scene and fresh insights drawn from coaching "Golden Bachelor" contestants, Kimmy Seltzer unpacks how style, vulnerability, and mindset shape romantic success in today's world. Whether you're ready for love, afraid to start, or just want to boost your confidence, this episode is filled with actionable strategies, personal stories, and a ton of positive encouragement. Plus: Behind-the-scenes makeovers, the truth about "fishing in the dating pool," and how Kimmy Seltzer helps people fall in love with themselves first. Episode Overview: 00:00 Episode…

People in this episode

Host: Lou Diamond

Guest: Kimmy Seltzer

Topics covered

  • dating
  • confidence
  • self-image
  • charisma
  • relationships
  • personal development

Keywords

  • dating strategies
  • confidence therapy
  • charisma quotient
  • self-image
  • dating after 40

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Golden Bachelor

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