Be Do Have Model: Transform Your Life

Be Do Have Model: Transform Your Life

From Tim Stating the Obvious by statingtheobvious

March 13, 2026 · 36 min · Season 7 · Episode 15

About this episode

Tildet Varon discusses the Be Do Have model as a framework for personal growth and fulfillment.

Are you caught in the endless daily grind? Chasing success on a hamster wheel constantly doing things that lead to burnout and misalignment? In this episode, Be Do Have Model: Transform Your Life, Tildet Varon invites you to step off that wheel and cultivate your own flourishing rose garden as a powerful metaphor for personal unfolding and growth. Drawing from her journey—starting with just three rose bushes that expanded to 90—Tildet shares how this garden became a living symbol for self-discovery. Each person is a unique rose in various stages of blooming, pruning, or support, and we all serve as gardeners tending our own growth while nurturing others in our interconnected human garden. At the heart of her philosophy is the Be-Do-Have framework (also known as the be do have mindset, be do have model, or be do have principle), which flips the typical success chase: Start with being—your authentic identity, emotional discipline, and internal state—rather than jumping straight to doing. When you align your core values, mind, heart, and authentic self through personal reflection and self-leadership, your actions (doing) flow naturally with positive energy, emotional intelligence…

People in this episode

Guest: Tildet Varon

Topics covered

  • personal growth
  • Be Do Have model
  • self-discovery
  • emotional intelligence
  • life balance

Keywords

  • Be Do Have
  • personal growth
  • self-discovery
  • emotional intelligence
  • life balance
  • success
  • burnout

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