Little Kid Night Wakings: A Kinder, Smarter Fix That Actually Works

About this episode

Dr. Cathryn shares a kinder, no-cry strategy to help toddlers sleep through the night without coming to their parents' room.

If your toddler is creeping into your room at 1am, 3am — or both — this episode is for you. Dr. Cathryn shares a simple, no-cry strategy that helped Katie sleep through the night in just one week, and gave Cecil's family a way into bedtime that finally felt collaborative instead of combative. Middle-of-the-night wake-ups are biologically normal — the goal isn't to stop your child from waking, it's to help them comfortably drift back to sleep without coming to find you. The Big-Hearted Ask works by turning your child from the scared one into the rescuer — giving them a stuffed animal that "needs their help" at night taps into their natural empathy and gives them a job to do at 2am. Four steps to set it up: introduce the animal during the day (not at bedtime), make tucking it in part of the wind-down routine, practice comforting it before lights out, and leave a simple reminder as you walk out the door. Whether your child is sneaking into your bed or battling bedtime from the very start, this strategy meets them where they are — and it's simpler than anything you've probably tried. RESOURCES How To Help Your Child Fall Asleep Without You (the smarter, kinder way) My Big-Hearted…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Cathryn

Topics covered

• night wakings
• toddler sleep
• parenting strategies
• bedtime routines
• empathy in children

Keywords

• toddler sleep
• night wakings
• no-cry strategy
• bedtime
• Big-Hearted Ask

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