Breadcrumbing vs Consistency: How To Spot The Difference

Breadcrumbing vs Consistency: How To Spot The Difference

August 18, 2026 · 32 min · Season 2 · Episode 32

About this episode

Toni discusses the difference between breadcrumbing and genuine consistency in relationships, along with personal anecdotes and advice.

Breadcrumbing or genuinely just busy?? 🍞 This week Toni's breaking down the difference between someone giving consistent effort and someone keeping you on a string, plus how to spot the pattern before you waste more time on mixed signals. Plus what would you do if your mum kept showing up unannounced (with the spare key 👀) are you taking the key back...Producer Annisha would! Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday! Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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