About this episode

Toni explores the concept of hyper-independence in women and its impact on love and connection.

"I don't need anyone"...sounds empowering, right? But what happens when that mindset starts closing the door on real love and connection? This week Toni is unpacking hyper-independence in women: the difference between being self-sufficient and emotionally shutting the world out. In Teatime with Toni, two listeners share how their independence is costing them in love, one was told she felt more like an "accessory" than a partner, and another's boyfriend is hurt that she  still  won't let him show up for her. This one hits different.  Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday! Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to  toni@tonitoldmepod.com  or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod . Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code TONITOLD at Emma Sleep . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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